‘You're not allowed to talk about the job’: Micromanager forces NDA to silence employees, employee ‘breaches’ contract and faces termination

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    NON-DISCLOSURE AGREEMENT ered into on this
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    Fired based on another employees word and an "NDA violation"... I was a restaurant server.
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    Firstly I just have to point out how weird it is that they force every employee to sign an NDA just to work at their stupid restaurant. It's not even a corporation, it's just an extremely petty and insecure husband and wife.
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    On Wednesday when I came in, first thing that happened was the manager telling me not to come in early. For context, I live in Texas where we were just hit by a hurricane. I was without electricity for 4 days, it's 1000+ outside, and I lost all of my food.
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    I came in 9 mins early to escape the heat after showering and getting ready at a local gym. It got on my nerves to say the least. I continued setting up for the day, until the owner asked to speak with me in another room.
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    She immediately started the conversation with hostility, asking why I was talking about the restaurant online. I was confused because I didn't know V. . F she was talking about, and then she started quoting
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    parts of my comment and said that it "makes them look bad". I never added anyone from that job on Facebook either. In the comment, I was thanking someone for sending me a gift card to get some food. I
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    mentioned that I worked down the street from them and that I just didn't want to rack up a tab at my job because I'm poor and can't afford the food at the moment. The owner immediately said that if she sees it again, that
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    I "won't be working there anymore".. and "yeah the foods expensive, that's how your bills are paid!" (Spoiler alert my bills are in fact not paid) and "if you have a PROBLEM, you have my number" like a 12 year old.
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    Honorable mentions "why didn't you post that you get free meal every shift?" Uhh idk, maybe because it wasn't about you and I wasn't at work! And "we take great care of our employees” really, do you? because ur manager griped at me for
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    walking in 9 mins early during a power outage, and you're speaking to me as if my Facebook comment ruined your life. she was extremely flippant and not interested in hearing anything I had to say. I tried explaining that
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    the comment wasn't about the restaurant, just about my financial troubles, and wasn't intended to be negative. But she didn't care and insisted that I was making them look bad and said that I “violated the nda by writing disparaging comments online."
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    This little "meeting" made me extremely upset. She was so ru 'e, and went on a power trip. I'm not the type of person that can put up with that. In the server station, I vented about it and said that I thought
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    she was really b❤hy about it, and that I don't like that she claimed that my bills are paid especially when the comment she's complaining about literally says they are not paid. Well... one
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    of those a boles immediately ran to the owners and told them that I "called her a boh" and said "she needs to shut the which I never said. But tbh even if I did it's none of their godd n business if I didn't say it in front
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    of them. I was just being honest. She WAS being a boh about it, and their reaction to another employees hearsay means she KNOWS it too. Her husband immediately came up and fired me, while the tattle tale hid in the
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    office. Did not review cameras when I employed them to (bc if he did he would've seen that the snitch was agreeing with everything I said. The snitch even has the owner BLOCKED on Facebook because she herself
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    has been written up for her bf posts). He even went so far as to immediately trespass me as if I was a threat or something. The termination paper (which I refused to sign) also threatens me with a lawsuit if I “speak negatively of the restaurant or its
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    staff". That's where the insecure part comes in, they can't handle any sort of criticism. They also reply to every bad review online and argue with the reviewer. So cringey. So anyways I just wanted to vent about it. I'm honestly not sure
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    how other people tolerate working for people like that? I guess if you're bffs with your managers, it's fine. But I don't play the ▶kissing restaurant politics game. I thought serving would be a decent thing for awhile, but I'm thinking of leaving
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    the industry for good because I cannot see eye to eye with restaurant management and their arrogant power trips.
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    SyCoCys 1 day ago • You're better off without these people in your life.
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    chegitz_guevara · 19 hr. ago NDA's are to prevent you from disclosing trade secrets. It's not a trade secret to not pay employees very much. Most places without a union have a policy of not disparaging them, but,
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    even then, you'd have to do so by name, or make it clear you were talking about them. In any event, you've learned an important lesson about keeping your FB posts friends only, and not friending anyone from work.
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    Bridge23Ux. 18 hr. ago Usually a condition of a severance package includes a clause that you can't disparage the company or their management. Without getting something in exchange. for keeping quiet, why would OP?
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    Hotdogwater88888 OP 13 hr. ago Yeah it was just a termination page which I refused to sign. No severance, which isn't expected from restaurants anyways. lol when I refused to sign the termination paper, the owner said that it's my copy anyways. Lie. If it was my copy, you wouldn't have asked me to sign it.
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    GrandObfuscator · 20 hr. ago You didn't violate your NDA. I'm sorry you live in a place where options for employment are limited.
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    hope1nmyself 19 hr. ago Hope their restaurant tanks and they gi bankrupt
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    Hotdogwater88888 OP 13 hr. ago Well another server quit the day after they fired me lol. We only had 7 servers. So I'm sure they're having a great time right now being down 2 servers and a kitchen manager because they fired that guy after a week too!

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